This is an abridget version of a post I made at Feminist Critics. It includes the parts pertaining men as victims of domestic and sexual violence and women as perpetrators per the stated focus of this blog. The unabridget version where I also address the other points made by Mychal Denzel Smith may be read by following this link to Feminist Critics.
Mychal Denzel Smith recently published an article on Feministing titled “The one where I need help understanding why MRAs don’t become feminists.”
I don’t identify as an MRA, but reading through his article I think I can help him get an understanding of why feminists like him don’t entice MRAs and others who are concerned with male issues to become feminists.
Apparently someone has informed Mychal that there are issues that MRAs care about and he lists them:
- “They say fathers have to navigate a family court system that unfairly privileges mothers in divorce”
- “[B]oys are falling behind in education”
- “They worry about high unemployment among men”
- “[M]en are more likely to commit suicide”
- “They argue that domestic and sexual violence against men is underplayed by the media”
- “[M]en are unfairly stereotyped as violent sexual predators”
Seemingly begrudgingly Mychal acknowledges these issues:
So … some of those aren’t completely unreasonable grievances. In fact, some of them are really serious issues that need to be addressed (I do wonder which men they’re talking about with regards to high unemployment, because something tells me it isn’t about black men).